Universal cycles of change: patterns in nature Translated 
 Human Behavior

We can learn much about ourselves from observing living cells, the growth of trees, ocean waves, and other universal models and biological growth and self development. Nature is our best teacher. Because human beings are part of nature and our universe is 15 billion years, it seems clear that there must be some connection between models that exist outside of ourselves and the unconscious patterns that reside within us.

During the past 16 years I have been observing and studying nature the laws of our universe with the same question in mind. "How is our national reality directly linked to our external reality, and how the influence two each other? "It took me a long trip that included the study of cybernetics, the science of complexity, autopoiesis, chaos theory, the morphogenetic fields, quantum mechanics and string theory, along with NLP and many other psychological and spiritual models. Through this research underway and many long discussions with my husband, Tim Hallbom we have developed a model to help you consciously create what you want in life cycles universal call for change.

Universal cycles of change are an ongoing process that occurs in our universe of 15 million years, so it is an older model. We observed seven universal cycles of change occurs in all living systems such as plants, trees, stars, cells and animals. You can also see these same cycles occur in most systems inanimate objects such as cars, houses, computers and economics.

Universal cycles of change can also be found in all aspects of human life and behavior. Found in marriage, business, health, families, with different states of mind and so on. Everyone goes through these cycles of each day and every year of our lives. Being aware of these cycles can help to raise awareness of the types of experiences of life we want, and do about the reality of our choice. People who do well in life are naturally sensitive to these cycles of change.

Here is a brief description of seven universal cycles of change have been identified (a more detailed description of these cycles is planned for later in the article):

Building-East new cycle is beginning. All systems must have a starting point for a particular type.

Growth, when life begins grow and develop, it becomes "self-organization."

Complexity maturity as a system begins to take shape and form due to continued growth, it becomes more complex to the point reached what we call a condition "stable." A system that works better when in stable condition.

When the turbulence, the system is too complex in its growth, the problems begin to develop games and turbulence Turbulence is considered feedback environmental conditions is a complex system can not be supported. Something has to happen for it to go to the next level creation and growth. If this change does not occur, then the whole mess

This chaos, when the system begins to disintegrate because it has become too complex, and chaos is fixed. The system can no longer hold together.

The droppings of chaos after established, there must be some kind of leave or go down to put the system into balance.

Meditation and latency – This is the last cycle in which the ystem regains its balance, allowing it to recycle back into …

Creation. The system is now less mass, more energy, as it contains all the teachings the previous cycles.Everything our universe is evolving and growing, and for billions of years. Part of this natural evolutionary process through different states including exchange. Consider a tree, for example, from the simplest metaphor I've found to describe the universal cycles of change.

The first cycle that passes through a tree of creation, what happens when a seed was planted. Then the tree grows, as predicted, with enough water and sun grow. Over time the tree reaches maturity stage where all the leaves have blossomed into full beauty. Then, the fall season is set, the leaves begin to change color. They turn brown and fall to the ground. After that, the tree is dormant, leafless. But come spring, the tree sprouts new leaves and the whole process creative is happening again.

Because all living systems too complex in their growth and development, must have some type of fall free to regain its equilibrium. The trees do this all time with their leaves. We can learn a lot of tree models. Have you ever been in a tree and autumn leaves. And all of a sudden you hear the tree to mourn ", pleeeease, do not let my leaves fall!" That never happens. The tree has mastered the art of elimination and recycling of safeguarding creation. The snakes are in the same way when they lose their skin. I never know a snake to resist this process. Although most computers containers have to deposit the excess of information that can slow down your hard drive, which allows the computer to operate with greater speed and creativity.

Interestingly, only one way of life that is not naturally to go through this process 15 billion years for the change. The same system can get stuck in the middle of turbulence and chaos for long periods of time. The same system is often resistant to decay than it should be presented. Can you guess which system is it?

Humans, of course.

People are the only living systems that can get caught in the turbulence and chaos. They are the only systems life will not submit anything that must be deposited in their lives. We see this resistance occurs in many relationships, career and health.

For example, my husband, Tim, and teach a class in Australia last year, when a man in the group shares an amazing achievement that was in the universal cycles of change and how they relate to him. This man had a teenaged daughter who had been unable to contact several years ago. After learning the universal cycles of change, raised his hand and said:

"I finally understand why I had many problems with my 17 year old daughter. In my mind I always think of her as a toddler. Now I realize that need to "drop" my perception of her as a child and start treating it as a young adult. Makes sense to me why there was so much turmoil and chaos in our relations over the past two years. "

Another woman who attended our training in London, England, told me an extraordinary experience he had with his children and universal cycles of change model. "Kris, I just got a lot of fun to me last night. After learning the universal cycles the model of change, I decided that need to "drop" co-dependent relationship I have with my five older children. he said enthusiastically.

"Although my children grew up, they are all so necessary. I felt my life was all about and there was no place for me. On my way home at night past, which will release the co-dependency I was going to stay involved with my children for many years. After I got home, all the "chaos" broke out. One by one, each child received a call to major crises. One car of my kids have, the other had just broken up with her boyfriend, another was a bad day, and so on. The phone call was stopped to their problems. I told each of them a son, who were responsible for themselves from now and will have to solve their own problems ". Said at this point history, that shone as she continued: "I just wanted to say that today is the beginning of the rest of my life. I am not co-dependent with my children and I can take my life! I'm going back to school and I'm going to start painting again, and the kinds of things that make me happy. I'm going to start living my life for me now, rather than to all over the world. "

Very often people are afraid to make changes as they are eager to begin his life in turmoil and chaos. For English women, who feared that their children have grown to resent if it was not always there for them. In lieu of gifts for their children, over time the resentment because I did not get to live life he wanted. Once she leaves her children ties of co-dependence of entanglement, which could become a new way to interact with their children. And in doing so, he found she could be more present for their children because they felt more spiritually fulfilled in his life.

As mentioned earlier, universal cycles influencing change in all areas of our lives. The main areas of life they are:

Romance and Love *

* Race

* Health
* Family
Money Matters *
Friends *
* Spirituality
* Your current mood

In assessing each area your life, including the universal cycle of change that is experienced in this context? If one of your domains are in turmoil and chaos, you may wonder,

"What are the things I need to present what I can bring my life back in balance? "

It is not always necessary to have a dramatic decline. You can put something as simple as reading the morning newspaper or drinking Diet Coke every day. Some other examples of things that may be required to submit are: attitudes, beliefs, attitudes, ways of thinking, perceptions, habits, jobs, and relationships. Other specific examples include: smoking, drinking too much alcohol, weight, television, coffee, fuzzy boundaries, animation and angry relationships, old need to be updated, a difficult employee, a toxic friendship, disorder, disorganization, resentment, anger, jealousy, unnecessary debt and unfinished with people.

Here is a description more detailed universal cycles of change to help identify which cycle may have:

Create es-cycle is about new beginnings. Everything has a starting point, and usually it starts with an idea, action or project. Examples of this include entrepreneurship, having a baby, invest in his first action or fund, the creation of an idea for a book or a painting, building your first home, getting married, buying a new car, plant the seeds for an orchard, or the Big Bang (the beginning of our universe as we know).

Growth-When a system begins to grow and develop, but also becomes "self organizing." What this means is that the initial creation begins to take shape. New behaviors begin to develop, and the system organizes itself around the original building. For example, a new company develops a wonderful marketing plan, the tock that invested in the start of increase in the price the small tree planted has shown signs of growth, the installation of the new headquarters of the fantasy setting and covers on your car or your child speaks his first words and took his first steps.

The complexity of maturity, as a system begins to take shape and form due to continued growth, it becomes complex to the point where it reaches a stable situation. " The system works best when it is in stable condition. Some examples of steady state when things are going exceptionally well at work, when an athlete enters the area where he planted the tree is sprouting beautiful green leaves, when their marriage going incredibly well, the car you bought is great works, the actions that have invested in a great leap in the right direction, or when you feel good about yourself and everything in your life.

Turbulence-evaluation-When the system is too complex in their growth and development, problems begin to develop and define turbulence. Turbulence is considered feedback from the environment that the state of the complex system can no longer count on the support and something that needs to be reorganized modified withdrawn. For example, you could have hired someone to work for you and that person does not work, you can start serious communication problems in their marriage are doing their health and welfare, the leaves of the trees that are planted are starting to change color, you may have invested in a stock and begins to fall to develop a minor physical symptom is annoying, shows signs of depression or dissatisfaction in your life, or the car starts making funny noises.

This chaos, when the system crashes completely separate and the chaos in series, for example, the tree leaves turn brown and wither, the employee unpleasant acts to the point of the general welfare of the company is threatened, the population has bought a huge drop, their marriage breaks down completely, which seriously ill, or funny sound your car makes a loud choking smoke and gray-blue begins blow to the exhaust pipe.

The manure and waste water outside Life often becomes so complex that breaks the chaos and have to present something to help the system to recover its overall balance. For example, when the snake sheds your skin, or the falling leaves of the trees, these are considered outside of excrement. Even having to replace a portion of your vehicle is a form of deposit or some type of reorganization. To go forward as a matter of hardship that often need to stop limiting belief, a dysfunctional relationship, the behavior change, or rearrange how you look at the world, making space in your life to create something wonderfully new. All forms of life in this universe as tree snakes, and even the stars can to stop this natural cycle to occur, as well as non-life forms, such as computers, with animation of the trash containers. The purpose waste to be disposed of additional information on the hard drive because it has too much space. Humans are the only ones who resist these natural cycles of change.

Meditation and latency-The way the system returns to equilibrium is to present something. Then, you can regenerate during the latent phase, leaving to recycle a backup to a new level of evolution of creation. As the tree is leafless bitter cold winter, we sometimes have to go a place of meditation and inner silence. It may be uncomfortable for a while, but can be very healing to mind a quiet place or keep a low profile for some time. Before you can proceed, you must be a lot of time to renew and rejuvenate. Once you have, you can be creative again. You will have to present what holds you back. However, you still have all the knowledge and wisdom that was acquired during the experiment. This sets the tone for a new cycle of creativity and growth.

My husband, Tim, and I found it useful for people looking in different areas of their lives, and identify where they are in the universal cycles of change. For example, was a woman attending a seminar WealthyMind ™ in Dallas, Texas last November, which began around the universal cycles of change model. In doing so, discovered there were three main areas of his life that were in total chaos. These areas include their work, marriage and health. I was very unhappy in his marriage of more than five years and tried everything possible to make it work. She and her husband had not slept in the same room for over three years. She had also become extremely satisfied with their work, and was 40 pounds overweight. She decided she needed to file your marriage, your job, and the extra 40 pounds I was wearing.

This same woman reappeared four months later, our program WealthyMindTM in Omaha, Nebraska. He had lost 32 pounds and looked fantastic. I asked him what his life is happening. She said she asked her husband for divorce and was in the middle of the transition from his former post and start a new business. She also deposited some of her limiting beliefs about money, which gave him the courage to start a new business. He admitted that all these changes have created a little chaos in his life, but she was happier than he had ever been and was glad of his new adventure.

By the way, is not recommended the filing of a report or a job. This is last resort. We always encourage our students and clients start by trying to give an attitude, perception, attitudes and beliefs related to the lack of overall harmony. If you drop out of these things does not work, then maybe you need to file the report or employment. Especially if it's dysfunctional, toxic, or abusive. Fortunately, we have NLP as a resource to help the transition from universal through these cycles of change.

In the case of the man who had problems with her teenage daughter is not as if I could just "abandoned" his relationship with his son. His only option was to reorganize that was in the context of the relationship. As soon as he stopped his treatment as a child, and began to treat as an adult, their relationship has improved. The magic of what he did with his daughter is in the structure of his inner experience. There was an internal representation of his being a young daughter. When approved the representation of his being an adult, then she started act like an adult. Thus, he managed to create a totally new experience with her daughter.

What happened to the man and his daughter goes back to the question original raised earlier in this article. "How is our inner reality directly linked to our external reality, and how both affect a others? "

Our external reality is a reflection of our inner reality. What nature can do for us is to serve as a perfect model to create life we want, and the evolution of higher levels of personal growth and spiritual development. Replies to create what you want in life can be found by becoming aware universal cycles of change and its application to all areas of life different. There is no reason why we can not use the same type of creative potential that exists within the seed of a plant or a star in our galaxy.

Barbara Walters interview was billionaire Bill Gates and asked, "Now you're the man world more rich and can get what you want, what more could you possibly want? "Gates replied:" To stop what never changes. I Today we will discuss the history of tomorrow. I'm sure you never stop creating, and I'm still evolving. "

Suggested reading:

A Brief History of Everything by Ken Wilber

Complexity by Mitchell Waldrop

The Web of Life by Fritjof Capra
The tree of knowledge of Humberto Maturana and Francisco Varela
Chaos: Making a New Science by James Gleick
Towards an Ecology of Mind Gregory Bateson
Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz
Beliefs: Pathways to health and welfare of Robert Dilts, Suzi Smith and Tim Hallbom

© 2003 by Kris Hallbom

About the Author

Kristine Hallbom is the co–founder of the NLP and Coaching Institute of California and the a co–developer of the the WealthyMind™ Program. Recognized for her ability to translate complex ideas into practical skills, and for her warm, approachable style, Kris has trained and coached clients throughout Europe, South America, Australia, Canada and the United States. She is a contributing author of Your Mind Power: Strategies for Behaviour Change (2007) and the best–selling book, Alternative Medicine-The Definitive Guide (1994); and has authored numerous articles about NLP, psychology, systemic thinking and prosperity. She is a long time student of NLP and Systemic Thinking, and holds a BA degree in Psychology and Languages.

She and her husband Tim are co-founders of The NLP & Coaching Institute in San Francisco, CA.
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